On the web, most researchers brag about their achievements.
Totally understandable. In this day and age, people search for your CV online when considering your job application, and you've got to tell them how good you are.
A successful psychology professor at Princeton University posted a CV of Failures, which encourages me to write something similar. In a nutshell, my career (or my whole life) consists of a series of unsuccessful attempts, punctuated by occasional (but very critical) successes.
I don't want to chronologically list all my failures as the list is too long to be remember. All I can say is that some of my papers got rejected, job applications got declined, & grant application got turned down. I made some bad decisions at research, which later thwarted progress. I also made a few bad decisions in my personal life, which also adversely affected many things.
It's a bit of a cliche to say everyone fails and everyone errs. But I think it's important that we talk openly about our failures. This does encourage people who are struggling to deal with setbacks. It's even more important to learn from mistakes. However, it's not easy - not many people understand why they trip up.
I listen to Jess Glynn's "Don't be so hard on yourself" when I'm frustrated. It helps.